My husband and I are having a serious sexual problem.
He told me when we met that he didn’t want our relationship to be just a sexual relationship. He also told me that he has Erectile Dysfunction. I said OK.
Well, months later as we got to know each other our relationship became sexual. It was me initiating sex because he never did. It was great. I asked him why he never initiated sex and he did once or twice. After that, NOTHING.
Two of the major problems are he has size and performance anxiety and he is addicted to XXX movies. I have tried time and time again to tell him that I enjoy having sex with him and it’s great, but it doesn’t help. And, I can’t compete with the XXX movies. I am by no way a prude, but he prefers the XXX movies and he refuses to get help with the other issue. I suggested Viagra and I have even looked for things that I might be able to buy over the counter for him. I don’t want to cheat, but I have needs. Nor do I want to leave him. What can I do?