Your best bet is to move on and find someone who does like you. There’s no point in trying to change his mind. So, if you’ve been wondering if he’s into you or not, read this list – and remember this stuff forever.
1. He never calls or texts first
It’s pretty simple: when a guy likes you, he wants to talk to you. And if he wants to talk to you, he’s going to text you or call you. Sure, it’s fine to sometimes be the one who reaches out, but if you’re the only one initiating any sort of conversation, that’s a good sign that he’s not into you. If a guy really wants to talk to you, he’s almost never too busy to send a quick text, so don’t be so quick to buy his excuses for why he hasn’t gotten in touch
2. He doesn’t talk or listen
When he does text you or talk to you, what does he say? If a dude is texting you and only sending a one word answer to your long paragraph, that’s a sign that he’s trying to subtly hint that he’s not interested. If he never asks you any questions about your day or about you in general, that means he doesn’t care to get to know you. And if you know nothing about him? That means he doesn’t want to open up to you
3. He only hangs out to hook up
When a guy likes you, he wants to impress you – and only bringing you up to his dirty room to make out on the bed isn’t exactly impressive.
If a guy is into you, he wants to know more about you than just what you look like unclad. He’ll want you to know that, so he’ll take you out or make an effort not to make everything about s*x.
If he only calls you after 11 PM to hook up, that is a good sign that the only thing he wants from you is to get into your pants – and please don’t confuse that for a crush.
4. He bails on you without a backup plan
If you guys make plans, whether it’s to go out or just to hang at his house, and he bails on you, pay attention to what he does afterwards.
If he just says, ‘Can’t make it tonight, sorry,’ and nothing else? Not a good sign. If he says, ‘Can’t make it tonight. Are you free tomorrow instead?’ Good sign. That means he genuinely feels bad about cancelling and still wants to see you. If he bails without saying anything else, that means he really doesn’t care. And if he keeps bailing and making more plans and then bailing again? That means he doesn’t have the balls to tell you he’s not interested.
5. He’s weird in social situations
If he acts super distant with you in school or at a party, that means he doesn’t want other people to think there’s something going on. That’s not only mean, it’s also shady. If a guy likes you, he won’t be afraid to flirt with you in front of his friends or your friends.